Instead of reading my blog this month, I hope you’ll watch the TED Talk on sex and intimacy by my mentor and friend, Dr. Sue Johnson.
But before you reach for your earbuds, here are some points that she makes that may surprise, intrigue or simply confirm some of your long-held beliefs:
- Passion is a longing for connection twined with safety that allows you to enjoy erotic play.
- The best sex is between securely attached people who read each other’s cues.
- Women need to feel safe before they can descend into arousal.
- How couples connect emotionally is also how they connect sexually.
- Now, you’re ready to enjoy the TED talk!