Discernment Therapy for Couples Considering Divorce
Is your marriage on the brink of divorce?
I help struggling couples decide whether to end their marriage or work on it through discernment counseling. This process allows couples to explore their relationship in a reflective environment, emphasizing understanding and open dialogue. It helps partners gain insights into their relationship dynamics and consider the impact of their choices on themselves, each other, and any children involved, guiding them toward a more informed decision about their marital future.
Discernment counseling focuses on three paths:
- Path 1: Continue the marriage the same way it has been going.
- Path 2: Separate or divorce.
- Path 3: Commit to an all-out effort for six months to see if you can build a strong marriage that will be good for both of you.
If you are ready, I can help you:
Discernment counseling is different from marriage counseling: The goal is not to solve your problems but to understand if your problems are solvable.
I help couples where one person is “leaning out” of the relationship—and not sure that regular marriage counseling would help—and the other is “leaning in”—that is, interested in rebuilding the marriage.
When there are children involved…
Discernment counseling is a good option for families with children. The decision to separate or not takes on a new dimension when their needs are under consideration as well.
Find a healthy path forward, together.
When discernment counseling is not a good option for couples:
What to expect
We will meet for up to five sessions, guided by the principles of discernment counseling. At the end of each session, we will decide together whether to continue.
The first session is two hours, and all subsequent sessions are one and a half hours. Each session begins with both of you together, followed by one-on-one conversations with each partner separately, and concludes with both of you together again.
Discernment counselors focus on helping each individual clarify their feelings and goals, which differs from regular couples therapy. The most intensive work takes place in the one-on-one discussions because each partner may be in a different place regarding the desired outcome for the relationship. As your counselor, I aim to help each of you individually determine the best path forward.
Discernment Counseling available in Houston
Discernment counseling with me, Liliane Nahas, in Houston offers compassionate guidance to couples facing marital challenges. With decades of experience, I help partners make thoughtful decisions about their relationship by fostering clarity and understanding. My approach honors both individual and shared perspectives, considering cultural, familial, and personal nuances. Together, we navigate whether to continue, separate, or rebuild your marriage through honest, open dialogue in a safe and supportive environment. Contact Me Here
